Mengumpulkan Backlink Dengan Cepat

Mengumpulkan Backlink Dengan Cepat bisa kita lakukan dengan gratis tanpa biaya. Cara Cepat Menaikkan Pagerank ini sudah banyak dilakukan oleh para blogger2 yang sudah ahli. Gak usah susah2 komentar sana sini. Cukup ikuti panduan ini. Oiaa.. Belum tahu apa itu PageRank? baca dulu gih di om wikipedia

Mengumpulkan Backlink Dengan Cepat adalah dengan copy paste artikel ini dari atas sampai bawah. Tapi sebelum itu bacalah dulu pesan-pesan dibawah ini.

Silahkan pelajari dengan baik lalu anda terapkan dengan benar…. Ada kata bijak yang mengatakan "Honesty is The Best Policy (Kejujuran adalah politik/strategi terbaik)", mari kita buktikan….apakah konsep kejujuran disini dapat kita gunakan untuk menghasilkan traffic dan popularity yang sangat hebat dari sebuah metode rumit para expert webmaster atau pakar SEO..? Saya percaya kita bisa asal metode ini anda terapkan dengan benar…apabila ini di aplikasikan pada web/blog anda sesuai ketentuan maka:

• Blog anda akan kebanjiran traffic pengunjung secara luar biasa hari demi hari, tanpa anda harus repot-repot memikirkan SEO atau capek-capek melakukan promosi keberbagai tempat di dunia online.
• Blog anda juga akan kebanjiran backlink secara signifikan hari demi hari, tanpa perlu repot-repot berburu link keberbagai tempat di dunia internet.

Hal yang harus anda lakukan adalah ikuti langkah-langkah berikut :

1. Buatlah postingan artikel seperti posting saya ini, atau copy-paste artikel ini. Lalu beri Judul sesuka anda (karena itu merupakan SEO buat web/blog anda sendiri).
2. Anda cukup hanya meletakkan Link-Link di bawah ini pada artikel anda tersebut pada blog/web anda.

1. blogger sporting
2. Asma Penyakit
3. Malaria Mosquito
4. automotive cyberspace
5. the spread of Avian influenza
6. That endanger diets
7. healthy beautiful skin
8. keep your health
9. Myths About Sleep
10. healthy without drugs

PERATURAN :

1. Sebelum anda meletakkan Link-Link tersebut ditas ke dalam postingan web/blog anda, harap hapus Link nomor 1 , Sehingga link no 1 hilang dari daftar link dan setiap link anda naikkan 1 level ke atas. Yang tadinya no 2 naik menjadi no 1, yang tadinya no 3 menjadi no 2, yang tadinya no 4 menjadi no 3 dan begitu seterusnya. Setelah itu masukkan Link anda pada urutan Paling bawah ( no 15 ).
2. Ingat!!! Jangan Merubah Urutan daftar link.. Buktikan kejujuran anda.. Karena ini demi keuntungan bersama, kita sesama blogger 
3. Apabila setiap blogger yang ikut dalam metode ini berhasil di duplikasi ole hblogger lain yang akan bergabung, andaikan 5 blogger yang bergabung maka Backlink yang anda dapat adalah Ketika:

Posisi anda 15, jumlah backlink = 1
Posisi 14, jumlah backlink = 5
Posisi 13, jumlah backlink = 25
Posisi 12, jumlah backlink = 125
Posisi 11, jumlah backlink = 625
Posisi 10, jumlah backlink = 3.125
Posisi 9, jumlah backlink = 15.625
Posisi 8, jumlah backlink = 78.125
Posisi 7, jumlah backlink = 390.625
Posisi 6, jumlah backlink = 1.953.125
Posisi 5, jumlah backlink = 9.765.625
Posisi 4, jumlah backlink = 48.828.125
Posisi 3, jumlah backlink = 244.140.625
Posisi 2, jumlah backlink = 1.220.703.125
Posisi 1, jumlah backlink = 6.103.515.625

Dan semua Dari kata kunci yang anda inginkan, bayangkan jika ini bisa berjalan dengan sempurna maka anda akan memperoleh 6.103.515.625 external link yang berasal dari berbagai blog yang anda tidak akan pernah bayangkan sebelumnya. Belum lagi apabila ada pengunjung blog anda dari Link List tersebut diatas maka otomatis anda akan memperoleh traffic ke web/blog anda juga. Ingat!!! Aturuan mainnya, Anda harus memulai dari urutan paling bawah (no 15) sehingga hasil backlink anda bisa Maksimal. Jangan salahkan saya apabila anda tidak mengikuti metode ini dengan benar dan Link anda tiba-tiba berada pada urutan no 1 dan menghilang pada Link daftar. Jadi mulai lah pada urutan paling bawah(no 15). Bisakah Anda melakukan tindakan tidak fair atau tidak jujur dengan menyabotase metode ini, misalkan saja "menghilangkan semua link asal" lalu di isi dengan link web/blog anda sendiri…? ….Bisa, dan metode ini menjadi tidak maksimal. Kejujuran adalah strategi/politik terbaik…..Tapi saya yakin bahwa kita semua tak ingin menjatuhkan kredibilitas diri sendiri dengan melakukan tindakan murahan seperti itu… —- SELESAI —-

Semoga metode ini bisa berjalan sesuai harapan kita bersama. . . ! ! !

Cara Cepat Menaikkan Pagerank mudah bukan? Beri tahu kepada kawan2 blogger yang lain agar pagerank anda naik, naik, dan terus naik

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Tubuh Butuh Makan Sehat

Tubuh Butuh Makan Sehat Tubuh manusia mengandung cairan sebanyak 55-75 persen dari berat tubuh. Artinya, seseorang yang memiliki berat 50 kilogram, setidaknya mengandung 27-33 kilogram air di dalam tubuhnya. Kekurangan cairan tubuh sekitar dua persen sudah memicu gangguan kesehatan ringan.

Jaga tubuh selalu terhidrasi untuk mempertahankan fungsi tubuh dengan baik. Tak hanya dengan asupan air minum, pemenuhan kebutuhan cairan dalam tubuh juga terbantu dari asupan makanan mengandung air, seperti dikutip Times of India.

Ada tiga kategori makanan yang berperan membantu menghidrasi tubuh: buah-buahan berair segar, sayuran berdaun hijau, dan sup berbasis air.

Hampir semua buah mengandung memang air. Tapi, yang memiliki kandungan air maksimal adalah semangka. Dan, level selanjutnya: apel, kiwi, jeruk, kelapa, stroberi, dan semua jenis berry.

Untuk sayur, lebih baik santap sayuran mentah, semacam lalapan. Sebab, teknik pengolahan seringkali menghilangkan kelembaban alami sayur yang penting untuk membantu menghidrasi tubuh. Sementara sup yang disarankan adalah sup kaldu dengan isian sayur.

Jangan remehkan dehidrasi karena kekurangan cairan dalam tubuh memicu gangguan kesehatan. Mulai dari gangguan ringan seperti mudah mengantuk, hingga penyakit berat seperti penurunan fungsi ginjal.

Berikut tiga tanda atau gejala dehidrasi:

• Dehidrasi ringan
Gejala: terasa haus, bibir kering, tenggorokan kering, kulit kering dan sakit kepala.

• Dehidrasi sedang
Gejala: pusing, denyut nadi meningkat, tekanan darah menurun, lemah, urine kental (warna kuning), volume urine sedikit.

• Dehidrasi berat
Gejala: kram otot, lidah bengkak, sirkulasi darah memburuk, fisik sangat lemah, penurunan fungsi ginjal dan pingsan

Ingin hidup lebih sehat? Cukupi kebutuhan cairan tubuh dengan minum air putih minimal enam gelas per hari dan meningkatkan asupan makanan kaya air Tubuh Butuh Makan Sehat

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Promo Member Alfamart Minimarket Lokal Terbaik Indonesia

Promo Member Alfamart Minimarket Lokal Terbaik Indonesia  Promo Member Alfamart Minimarket Lokal Terbaik Indonesia merupakan promosi Yang dilakukan Oleh Minimarket Lokal Terbesar dan Minimarket Pertama Terbaik Indonesia guna untuk menarik Simpati dan Perhatian lebih dari masyarakat untuk menjadi Member Alfamart dan khususnya pecinta Informasi internet dengan menyelenggarakan Promo Indonesia Kontes SEO Alfamart 2012.

Bagi anda yang suka berbelanja tentunya tidak asing lagi dengan minimarket yang satu ini. Sebagai Minimarket Pertama yang memiliki member terbanyak di Indonesia Alfamart memberikan banyak inovasi untuk memanjakan membernya. Salah satunya adalah dengan konsisten 2 minggu sekali  memberikan Promo khusus untuk member-membernya baik untuk berbelanja di Alfamart atau pun di merchant-merchant yang banyak bekerja sama dengan Alfamart untuk memberikan potongan harga atau harga spesial.

Alfamart Minimarket Pertama yang memiliki member terbanyak di Indonesia Alfamart Memberikan Motivasi dan Inspirasi serta Inovasi untuk memanjakan membernya. Salah satunya adalah dengan konsisten 2 minggu sekali  memberikan Promo Indonesia khusus untuk Member Alfamart baik untuk berbelanja di Alfamart Minimarket atau pun di merchant-merchant yang banyak bekerja sama dengan Alfamart Minimarket untuk memberikan potongan harga atau harga spesial.

Member Alfamart Adalah sebutan untuk para pelanggan setia Alfamart.Para member Alfamart akan mendapatkan berbagai macam keuntungan dan kejutan special dari Alfamart seperti: HematKu, Kalender Belanja, Specialku dan Hadiahku,serta program ekslusif lainnya. Member Alfamart adalah pelanggan yang memiliki dan bergabung dalam keanggotaan Kartu AKU, A Card Flazz atau Kartu AKU BNI Promo Member Alfamart Minimarket Lokal Terbaik Indonesia

KARTU AKU Promo Member Alfamart Minimarket Lokal Terbaik Indonesia

    Kartu Aku

Adalah kartu member yang pertama kali diluncurkan Alfamart pada tahun 2005. Dengan Kartu AKU, Member akan dapat memperoleh manfaat dan berbagai macam keuntungan serta Promo Indonesia menarik yang tidak dapat diikuti oleh pelanggan lain yang bukan merupakan member Kartu AKU. Kartu AKU berlaku Nasional di Alfamart seluruhIndonesia.

A CARD FINAL Promo Member Alfamart Minimarket Lokal Terbaik Indonesia
    A Card Flazz

Adalah Kartu Member Alfamart yang di luncurkan pada 15 Mei 2010 bekerja sama dengan Flazz BCA, yang selain berfungsi sebagai kartu member juga dapat digunakan sebagai alat pembayaran/transaksi karena A Card Flazz merupakan Kartu Prepaid (kartu non rekening yang dapat menyimpan uang untuk keperluan berbagai transaksi).

A Card Flazz dapat digunakan sebagai alat pembayaran tidak hanya diseluruh outlet Alfamart, Alfamidi ataupun Alfaexpress tetapi juga diseluruh merchant Flazz antara lain restoran, salon, toko buku, parkir, bioskop dan masih banyak lagi. Untuk sementara ini, A Card Flazz berlaku di Jabodetabek,Surabaya

KARTU AKU BNI Promo Member Alfamart Minimarket Lokal Terbaik Indonesia
    Kartu Aku BNI

Merupakan salah satu Kartu Member Alfamart yang di luncurkan pada 1 Januari 2010, merupakan kerjasama antara Alfamart dengan Bank BNI. Kartu AKU BNI merupakan kartu multifungsional, yang selain berfungsi sebagai kartu member, juga berfungsi sebagai alat pembayaran. Pengguna Kartu AKU BNI juga akan mendapatkan berbagai keuntungan dan kejutan spesial dari Alfamart serta tentunya dapat mengikuti program-program eksklusif khusus member di Alfamart. Untuk saat ini, Kartu AKU BNI berlaku di Alfamart Jabodetabek.
8 Keuntungan Member Alfamart

   1. Hematku dan Kalender Belanja
   2. Spesialku dan Hadiahku
   3. Special Big Program for "Member Alfamart"
   4. Redemption For "Member Alfamart"
   5. Member Alfamart" Thematic Promo
   6. Special Treatment for "Member Alfamart" Birthday
   7. Special Event/Activities For "Member Alfamart"
   8. Merchant For "Member Alfamart"

 

Demikianlah penjelasan singkat tentang  Promo Member Alfamart Minimarket Lokal Terbaik Indonesia Semoga dapat bermanfaat dan memberikan pengetahuan Lebih kepada masyarakat agar dapat bergabung menjadi Member Alfamart dan pastikan anda mendapakan keuntungan dan manfaat lebih dari Alfamart Minimarket Lokal Terbaik Indonesia

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Tradisi China Pengantin Hantu

Tradisi China Pengantin Hantu Dalam tradisi China, seorang pemuda yang meninggal sebelum menikah tidak dapat berkeliling akhirat sebelum menikah. Maka, jenazah seorang pemuda harus dinikahkan lebih dulu agar bebas berkeliling di akhirat bersama pasangannya.

Seorang wanita asal Provinsi Hebei, dekat Beijing, menjadi 'pengantin hantu' setelah kematiannya pada liburan Imlek. Keluarganya memutuskan untuk menjual jenazah gadis ini dan dinikahkan dengan jenazah seorang pemuda.

Meski Mao Tse Tung mencoba membasmi praktek itu saat Partai Komunis berkuasa pada 1949, pasar gelap para pengantin jenazah di China tetap berlangsung hingga saat ini.

Seperti dimuat dalam Telegraph, jenazah si gadis dijual senilai £3.500 atau sekitar Rp49,7 juta untuk menjadi mempelai pada sebuah pernikahan roh. Usai pernikahan, tubuh keduanya kemudian dimakamkan bersama.

Namun, sekelompok pencuri jenazah kemudian menggali kuburannya dan menjualnya untuk dijadikan mempelai roh seorang bujangan yang meninggal di kota lain dengan harga Rp43 juta. Kepolisian setempat berhasil menangkap si pencuri. 

Pada tahun 2007, seorang pria ditangkap setelah membunuh dan menjual enam wanita sebagai pengantin roh. Dia mengklaim, "membunuh dan menjual tubuh lebih mudah daripada mencurinya dari kuburan."

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Tipe Wanita Pembelanja

Tipe Wanita Pembelanja Rasanya, tak ada perempuan yang tak suka berbelanja. Namun seperti ketika kita memiliki selera yang berbeda tentang apa yang dibeli, kita pun memiliki cara yang berbeda dalam mendapatkan barang tersebut. Jika Anda mengaku sebagai a big shopper, enam kategori di bawah ini mungkin berlaku untuk Anda:

The One-Store Shopper. Anda hanya akan browsing di satu butik saja, tak peduli apa pun yang Anda inginkan. Anda setia dengan satu atau dua merek saja atau dengan toko tertentu saja, dan betah berlama-lama di dalam butik tersebut untuk membeli atasan, jeans, sepatu, jaket, tas, atau aksesori lainnya.

The Bargain-Hunter. Anda sangat menikmati pusat pertokoan yang mirip gang senggol, asalkan Anda bisa menawar harga sepuasnya. Anda terbiasa blusukan di pertokoan di kawasan Tanah Abang, atau ITC untuk mendapatkan harga terbaik, dan hafal dimana letak toko-toko langganan Anda. Anda begitu pintar merayu, hingga seringkali pemilik tokonya turun tangan menghadapi Anda untuk memberikan harga khusus. Selain itu Anda juga termasuk pemburu diskon di department store. Asalkan diskon cukup besar Anda pasti akan membeli barang tersebut, tak peduli apakah Anda membutuhkannya atau tidak.

The Buying-Things-Without-Trying-Them-On Shopper. Seringkali karena malas menunggu antrian di fitting room, Anda memutuskan untuk langsung membeli barang tanpa mencobanya lebih dulu. Anda juga tak ragu-ragu menggunakan kartu kredit untuk membayar barang yang cukup mahal, dan tidak merasa sayang karena harus berhutang dalam waktu lama. Akibatnya, lemari pakaian Anda dipenuhi baju-baju yang tidak terpakai, karena meskipun muat di badan, pakaian-pakaian tersebut tidak layak dipakai. Entah karena belahan dadanya terlalu rendah, potongan di ketiak terlalu sempit, atau bagian bahu yang terasa tidak nyaman.

The Online Shopper. Karena sudah merasakan asyiknya berbelanja secara online, Anda makin yakin bahwa kebanyakan online store dapat diandalkan. Anda merasa nyaman dengan cara berbelanja ini, karena menghemat waktu dan uang, dan tidak repot. Online shopper sendiri terdiri atas beberapa tipe: orang yang memang malas berbelanja dan bertransaksi di toko, orang yang termakan iklan (karena begitu melihat katalog langsung tertarik berbelanja karena takut kehabisan), dan orang yang ingin membeli barang-barang yang unik atau enggak pasaran, yang hanya tersedia di toko-toko online.

The Thrift Shopper. Anda suka mendatangi acara garage sale untuk mendapatkan barang-barang bekas berkualitas dengan harga murah. Entah itu pakaian, sepatu, buku-buku, alat olahraga, juga perabotan atau alat-alat rumah tangga. Namun ada juga orang yang justru menyukai barang-barang yang terlihat sudah dipakai, misalnya perabotan dari kayu jati.

The Emotional Shopper. Nah, Anda tentu paling paham siapa yang dimaksud dengan pembelanja emosional. Mungkin Anda termasuk di dalamnya. Anda menganggap aktivitas berbelanja mampu mengusir stres dengan cepat. Anda merasa langsung ingin ke mal dan pulang membawa sepatu baru, ketika sesuatu yang buruk terjadi pada Anda. Anda baru putus dengan kekasih, jenuh dengan pekerjaan yang seolah tak ada habisnya, atau tak tahan berada di rumah karena kakak atau adik sering bertengkar dengan ibu Anda. Untuk mengatasi semua masalah itu, Anda merasa berbelanja jalan keluar satu-satunya.

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usefulness tears

Benefits Of Crying

The only living organisms that are able to shed their sorrows and frustration through tears are human beings. Crying is a common human experience and has been a part of every culture and civilization throughout history. Traumatic events, loneliness, prolonged stress, loss of life and property, pain, and daily hassles of life often trigger the process of crying. Many times, people drop tears of joy, happiness, and relief. Although crying occurs due to feelings of sorrow and distress, but once the process of crying is over, they experience a good feeling of releasing unpleasant emotions. Research done on the effects of crying indicates that in most instances, crying is quite beneficial to the human minds and body. The many benefits of crying include:

1.Removes toxins form the body.
Crying helps the body to get rid of waste material, toxins and other harmful substances from the body. These substances would otherwise remain inside and might cause harm to the internal system

2.Preventing the occurrence of depression.
Most people get depressed because their emotions could not be expressed at the right time and got suppressed inside their minds. Crying prevents the suppression of a person’s emotions and is one of the healthiest ways to come out of them. Crying also improves the state of people who are already depressed and make them feel better

3.Lifts your mood:
If your mood is low due to physical or emotional pain, crying stimulates the release of endorphins. These are hormones which help to elevate mood and also act as pain killers. Due to the release of these hormones people usually feel better after crying.

4.Beneficial for the eyes.
The tear glands present in the eyes continuously produce tears in small quantities. Blinking of the eyes spread these tears evenly over the surface of eyes. This helps in cleaning and lubrication of the eyes.

5.Prevents bacterial growth.
Tears contain a chemical component known as Lysozyme. This chemical inhibits the growth of bacteria on the surface of the eyes. Some portions of tears that come out of the eyes evaporate, but remaining tears through the tear duct drain into the nose. These help to keep the nose moist and lysozyme present in the tears inhibits the growth of bacteria inside the nose.

6.Helps in relaxation.
Once a person stops crying, the body shifts from a high arousal state to state of relaxation. Heart rate and breathing slows down, sweating decreases and person feels more relaxed. The state of relaxation lasts for a longer duration than the moments spent in crying.

So next time when you are unhappy stressed or depressed, find a friend’s shoulder and cry for some time. It will not only reduce your unhappiness and stress, but also make you positive towards solving the issue.

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The benefits of crying

Crying is often the result of feelings of sadness and frustration, but after crying many people experience a feeling of release and catharsis (Byslma, 2008).  Humans are the only species that shed tears emotionally.  Crying is something that all people of all ages and cultures do (Hendriks, 2008).  Since crying is a trait that has evolved solely in humans, there must be some sort of evolutionary advantage to emotional crying.  Many studies have been done which examine the effect that crying has on the body, and most of them have actually found that crying actually has a negative impact physiologically (Hendriks, 2008).  However, many people including psychologists have always believed that crying is good for you (Hendriks, 2008).  Perhaps crying  developed evolutionarily for a non-physiological reason.  “Attachment Theory” suggests that crying is a behavior that is natural to humans from birth.  As an infant, babies learn that crying will result in comforting, which creates a relationship bond.  This behavior is continued to create attachments in life (Hendriks, 2008).

Dr. Oren Hasson, a professor at Tel Aviv University, recently conducted a study in which he studied different types of crying and the benefits of crying.  He speculated that the evolutionary advantage of crying comes from crying with your peers.  When you cry, you show vulnerability because your vision is blurred.  This allows someone who cares about you to take care of you while you are in a weakened state. According to Hasson, this is beneficial to both the caretaker and receiver because it creates a stronger relationship bond.  This means that a positive comes out of the negative situation which caused the crying in the first place.

A group of professors at the University of South Florida collected over 3000 personal accounts of crying episodes. These accounts were memories of crying that did not occur in a controlled laboratory setting.  The survey found that about two thirds of the people felt better after crying than they had before.  The people who had been comforted while crying were usually the ones who reported that crying gave them this feeling of relief.  The study also found that testing the affects of crying in a laboratory setting does not produce the same affects.  Cornelius also found that when subjects cried in a formal experiment they often reported feeling worse afterward (Bylsma, 2008). However, this can be explained by the lab setting.  If crying is induced, it will not be accompanied by the same emotional release that it would in real life.  Also, even if the person crying is comforted, it will not have the same value and bonding affect because it is not as genuine.

To understand the effects of crying, it is helpful to understand what happens in our bodies when we cry.  The part of the body that produces tears is called the lacrimal system (Vingerhoets, Cornelius, Van Heck, & Becht, 2000).  The lacrimal system is controlled by the sympathetic nervous system and the parasympathetic nervous system.  Together these make up the autonomic nervous system. The lacrimal nucleus is located in the brain stem, and it has connections to many parts of the brain.  One of these is the hypothalamus, which is connected to many emotional systems in the body.  When the lacrimal nucleus is stimulated through one of these connections, it leads to crying (Vinherhoets, et al.,  2000).  While the actual crying is going on, the psychologists at University of South Florida report that lab subjects do not experience a feeling of release.  However, if they are comforted, the emotional benefit of this bonding will create the more positive feeling reported by so many after crying.

So, if you are feeling upset and stressed out, the best thing to do may be to find a friend’s shoulder to have a good cry on.

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Do not Let the Children Cry

When your baby cries in the middle of his sleep at night, you should immediately calm him down, or ignored? The attitude of ignoring the cries of the children claimed would cause some problems in later life, such as ADHD (Attention Deficit Hyperactivity Disorder), antisocial behavior, and low IQ. But is there any scientific evidence that shows that letting children cry while sleeping can cause long term brain damage?

This may be associated with sleep training method that implemented Dr. William Sears, Associate Clinical Professor of Pediatrics at the University of California, Irvine, School of Medicine. Dr. Sears approach emphasizes child-centered parenting. He recommends parents to patiently help the kids to bed on time. You do this by sleeping with her, build a comfortable night's sleep rituals, and other forms of physical proximity to create a positive atmosphere of sleep, and healthy sleep habits forever. In this way, children will not have a chance to cry, because parents are always there near the child to respond to their need for food or comfort.

This method is contrary to the sleep training techniques that apply the CIO (Cry It Out), which states that a crying baby alone for a short time, but occasionally be visited his parents, will not experience trauma. It is the children who have a good time off, and happier. Strategy sleep without tears, according to CIO techniques, will cause the baby to be too dependent on the convenience provided by his parents, the child makes it difficult to learn to push themselves to sleep.

Other parenting instructor, Elizabeth Pantley (author of The No-Cry Sleep Solution) that supports Dr. Sears, consider that allowing a child alone and crying in her room is an attitude that is not natural, less good, and betrayed the trust that has been developed in adults and children of the world in the vicinity. Dr. Sears also said that the technique CIO will establish a negative association in children about bedtime, which will last throughout his life. Babies often cry possibility of showing early signs that they are slow in developing emotional control.

Unfortunately, there is no evidence that strengthens this far, so it can be said that none of the sleep strategy is effective for every child, even for a child forever. You are free to apply the personal care option for you, by recognizing the child, be flexible, and seek what is most appropriate for you both.

For Heather Turgeon, psychotherapist at the Pump Station, Los Angeles, be responsive and caring are the main job of parents. Accompany the child to sleep is the most natural parenting and baby probably programmed to grow in this way. Most parents would want a child who is quite independent, and do not have a bedtime routine that ends with the trauma every night. If you can not accompany the child for longer, if the moments when you let her cry can alter brain development? He was not sure, but more often chose to meet the needs of her child.

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Brother and sister fight

One of the frequent tantrums our children  are fighting with their own siblings. This act is certain to make us dizzy. The way out of what should we choose?

According to Dr Richard C Woolfson, who wrote the book Why My son soon?, causes of quarrel siblings are jealous. A study even reinforcing it by saying that the quarrel is also associated with a range of age siblings are too close.

Appropriate punishment we give to our children is to prohibit both watch television, either the brother or sister. It could also prohibit them to enjoy a snack that we keep in the kitchen. Instead, they must complete the task we give. For example, requiring them to tidy up toys and put them in a toy store in working together.

However, it does not mean in every fight we have to intervene because of the small quarrel is not our capacity to intervene. Let them solve their own problems and apologized to each other. If not, the consequences they could no longer play or joking together. In fact, I can not share what they have.

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Do not Cry, baby

Start annoyed if all issues end with crying. So, do not be surprised if he often did not care when you cry. Curious to know what's on her mind when she saw you cry? Consider the words of their hearts.

"We feel jealous"
The man said: "Since the small, our parents always say 'boys should not cry'. We have been taught that crying will make us weak creatures. That is the reason why we do not like playing feeling. Actually we can also weep. The difference, expression of feelings that we do at a particular time and place. Sometimes we feel jealous of women who can cry as he recounted all its problems. Not like us who have megubur feelings of deep sadness. "

Until whenever, he always required a person who's tough and strong. Dr. William A. Barry from Saint Paul Ramos Medical Centre stated that the factors strongly influence the adaptation of civilization means employed men and women in expressing his feelings. Most people are more receptive than when she saw women crying at seeing a man cry.

"We are perplexed"
The man said: "Frankly, we are often confused with the habits of women who cry easily. Because when we observe, they do not only cry when overwhelmed with a big problem, but also crying by the things that we consider trivial, such as watching movies romance drama. More confused again, if they cry for no apparent reason and just said 'what's baseball, really, just want to cry alone'. We can not read women's minds. Weakness is what ultimately makes us puzzled to determine what actions can we do to helping and comforting them. "

So, do not misunderstand when the he was speechless when she saw you cry. Not because no matter, it's just that men sometimes do not understand what has made you cry. How could act, just do not understand. Remember, they are different from us. Do not expect them always to understand the sign language that we submit. Straight to the point it has become civilized they long ago.

"We care"
The man said: "Although more use logic, but we still use 20 percent feeling in the face of problems. We also can feel sad when a friend of women, especially our partner, to cry because of an obvious problem, not solely because he was experiencing bad hair day. Moreover, if they are crying because of our actions have hurt them. We will certainly be deeply felt guilty if not able to help and soothe them back. We could be a creature who is very concerned if it is desired. The message to the women; weep if indeed necessary and do not overdo it. "

In essence, the ability to explain the problems that make you sit up crying was not going to make him hesitate to help you out of trouble. Especially if they who have made you cry, without further ado, the good guy usually will immediately apologize and correct his mistakes. So, good communication is key.

"We're annoyed"
The man said: "This is something that can make us no longer care to see women cry, by the time they melakuakn errors and cried when asked to explain. If this is a way for women to cover up his mistake and assume that the crying can make us feel sympathy and pity, they are wrong. We know that women can cry a little to relieve our emotion, but if in such a situation, might our emotions getting jumped and finally left without a reason. We consider this attitude pretty childish. For us, the problem must be solved adult, not a whimper. "

Apparently not all crying can solve the problem, yes. If indeed you do wrong, just admit your mistakes and apologize. Never try to find fault with them if you do not want the problem to grow worse. Good attitude to not repeat the mistakes were enough to make him understand.

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