Do not Cry, baby

Start annoyed if all issues end with crying. So, do not be surprised if he often did not care when you cry. Curious to know what's on her mind when she saw you cry? Consider the words of their hearts.

"We feel jealous"
The man said: "Since the small, our parents always say 'boys should not cry'. We have been taught that crying will make us weak creatures. That is the reason why we do not like playing feeling. Actually we can also weep. The difference, expression of feelings that we do at a particular time and place. Sometimes we feel jealous of women who can cry as he recounted all its problems. Not like us who have megubur feelings of deep sadness. "

Until whenever, he always required a person who's tough and strong. Dr. William A. Barry from Saint Paul Ramos Medical Centre stated that the factors strongly influence the adaptation of civilization means employed men and women in expressing his feelings. Most people are more receptive than when she saw women crying at seeing a man cry.

"We are perplexed"
The man said: "Frankly, we are often confused with the habits of women who cry easily. Because when we observe, they do not only cry when overwhelmed with a big problem, but also crying by the things that we consider trivial, such as watching movies romance drama. More confused again, if they cry for no apparent reason and just said 'what's baseball, really, just want to cry alone'. We can not read women's minds. Weakness is what ultimately makes us puzzled to determine what actions can we do to helping and comforting them. "

So, do not misunderstand when the he was speechless when she saw you cry. Not because no matter, it's just that men sometimes do not understand what has made you cry. How could act, just do not understand. Remember, they are different from us. Do not expect them always to understand the sign language that we submit. Straight to the point it has become civilized they long ago.

"We care"
The man said: "Although more use logic, but we still use 20 percent feeling in the face of problems. We also can feel sad when a friend of women, especially our partner, to cry because of an obvious problem, not solely because he was experiencing bad hair day. Moreover, if they are crying because of our actions have hurt them. We will certainly be deeply felt guilty if not able to help and soothe them back. We could be a creature who is very concerned if it is desired. The message to the women; weep if indeed necessary and do not overdo it. "

In essence, the ability to explain the problems that make you sit up crying was not going to make him hesitate to help you out of trouble. Especially if they who have made you cry, without further ado, the good guy usually will immediately apologize and correct his mistakes. So, good communication is key.

"We're annoyed"
The man said: "This is something that can make us no longer care to see women cry, by the time they melakuakn errors and cried when asked to explain. If this is a way for women to cover up his mistake and assume that the crying can make us feel sympathy and pity, they are wrong. We know that women can cry a little to relieve our emotion, but if in such a situation, might our emotions getting jumped and finally left without a reason. We consider this attitude pretty childish. For us, the problem must be solved adult, not a whimper. "

Apparently not all crying can solve the problem, yes. If indeed you do wrong, just admit your mistakes and apologize. Never try to find fault with them if you do not want the problem to grow worse. Good attitude to not repeat the mistakes were enough to make him understand.

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